You’ve been hard on yourself for years.
It’s finally time to stop.

You've Done So Much, So Why Don't You Feel Good?

You’ve worked hard, checked the to-do boxes and had some great wins. But deep down, you still put yourself down when you come up short and can't give yourself a break. The critical voice in your head is always ready to make you feel terrible. You show up for everyone else. You perform. You honestly try so hard.
But inside, it’s never enough. You struggle to rest and celebrate wins because a voice always says,
“It won’t last… do better… not enough...”

You’re not broken — you’re just tired of fighting yourself.

The shift isn’t doing more — it’s learning to see yourself differently.

You’ve probably noticed this: the harder you push, the more chaotic life feels.

You tighten your grip, you force yourself to grind, and maybe you hit the next milestone… but it never brings the peace you thought it would.

That’s because your outer results will never rise higher than the alignment of your inner life.

Without alignment, every win feels hollow. Notice how it's hard being proud of yourself?

That’s why…

❌ The voice of self-doubt never really goes away.
❌ Validation and reassurance always has to come from others, not from you
❌ You can't rest because there's a guilt you have to do more
❌ More discipline doesn’t give lasting peace, it only burns you out.

It’s not because you’re weak, and it’s not because you’re lazy.

It’s because you’ve been trained to do motivated and take action through criticism and fear, not compassion and love. 

Real confidence doesn’t come from grinding harder and watching more YouTube videos.

Confidence is the feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities.

That's true confidence. That's what really matters. 

Here's what will happen for you:

What You’ll Experience Inside the Program

This isn't a quick fix to confidence. This isn't some Alpha Male bootcamp.

The Men’s Transformation Program is an 8-week journey designed to help you go from self-doubt to self-confidence, from fear to compassion, so you can finally feel at peace with who you are. You’ll clear the fog, uncover what’s been holding you back, and learn to lead yourself with strength, honesty, and calm.

It’s a reset — a slower, more honest way back to yourself.

✅ Turn your inner critic into your inner coach — that voice finally becomes an ally instead of a bully.
✅ Feel calm — not guilty — when you rest, knowing your worth isn’t tied to productivity.
✅ Build confidence that’s rooted in compassion, not perfection.
✅ Reconnect with your emotions without being overwhelmed by them.
✅ Learn how to self-motivate with respect and integrity, not shame.
✅ Leave with daily tools and you’ll actually use for a lifetime.

🔥 Everything You Get When You Secure Your Spot

🧭 8-Weeks of Live Coaching with Scott — (Real Value: $3,000)

Eight weeks of live, small-group coaching with me (only five men total) where you’ll learn to quiet the inner critic, build real confidence, and reconnect to who you are beneath the pressure.
Each call blends neuroscience, mindfulness, and self-compassion — not theory, but tools you’ll actually use.

Value & Investment

💎 Total Real-World Value: $3,744

⏳ My normal rate is $1,000/hr... but for a LIMITED TIME ONLY you can secure your session at the special price of only $997.

That’s over 70% off the full future rate — available only for the first 5 men who join this round starting November 3.

⚠️ Limited Availability: I only take a handful of these sessions each month. Once my calendar is full, the booking closes.

💯 My Compassion Guarantee:
If you show up fully and don’t leave with at least one genuine breakthrough that shifts how you see yourself, I’ll refund your investment — no questions asked.

Why Work with Scott Ste Marie?

Since 2013, I’ve lived at the intersection of neuroscience, spirituality, and personal growth.

I started out just sharing my story — a young man battling depression, anxiety, and relentless self-criticism — on YouTube. I never imagined those videos would reach millions around the world. Over time, that small act of honesty grew into a global community and a mission: to help people meet their pain with compassion instead of shame.

On the outside, I had everything that looked like success — followers, speaking gigs, business opportunities — but inside I was still caught in the same struggle so many men face: pressure, performance, and the quiet belief that I wasn’t enough. It took years of unlearning, mindfulness, and grace to realize that peace doesn’t come from achievement — it comes from self-understanding.

Over the last decade, I’ve taught mindfulness and self-compassion to thousands of people — from corporate teams to classrooms to men’s circles — while earning my Master’s in Neuroscience, Psychology & Mental Health from King’s College London. I’m certified in Life Coaching, Mindful Self-Compassion (MSC), and Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR), and I’ve built a coaching practice rooted in science, spirituality, and lived truth.

But this isn’t coming from a monk on a mountaintop or a therapist in a quiet office.
I live in the world — bills, deadlines, relationships, responsibility — just like you.

And that’s what makes this work real. I know what it feels like to keep pushing, to try to fix yourself through achievement, and to still feel restless and unsatisfied. I’ve walked that same path — and I know how to help you walk out of it.

This isn’t a job for me. It’s a calling. My life’s work is to help men quiet the inner critic, reconnect with their strength, and finally feel proud of who they are — not for what they’ve achieved, but for how they live and love.

If you’ve been searching for a guide who’s been through it, who lives it daily, and who can walk beside you with honesty and compassion — you’ve found him.

Exactly What Happens When You Register

1. Choose your time on my calendar.
You’ll pick the date and time that works best for you.

2. Share your intentions.
You’ll fill out a short form where you can tell me what you’re hoping to achieve in our time together. This sets the stage for a call that’s 100% focused on you.

 3. Confirm your spot.
You’ll secure your session by completing the $499 guidance fee.

 4. Get your confirmation.
You’ll be taken to a simple thank-you page with all the details about your upcoming session.

 5. The moment arrives.
At the time you chose, we’ll meet face to face on the call. For many men, this first moment is surreal — especially if you’ve been following me on YouTube for 10, 15, or even 20 years.

 6. Setting the frame.
I’ll begin by reading back what you shared with me on your form, so everything is on the table and we’re aligned on your most important goal for the session.

 7. The reflection framework.
I’ll walk you through a powerful series of questions designed to uncover the hidden blocks, reveal the patterns holding you back, and identify the breakthroughs waiting to be claimed.

 8. Extract the gems.
We’ll pause to reflect on what’s resonated with you most deeply — your biggest takeaways, the “aha” moments you can’t ignore.

 9. Create your plan.
Together, we’ll map out a clear plan of action. This is your chance to make a real commitment — to step forward into something new.

 10. Leave with clarity and direction.
You’ll walk away with alignment, clarity and a concrete next step you can put into action immediately.

This call is 100% about you.

Your alignment. Your clarity. Your transformation.

Some men ask me about going deeper through on-going private guidance or live events. If it feels like a fit, I may extend that invitation. But that is NOT the purpose of this call.

This is not a sales pitch.

It’s a sacred conversation — one that can change the entire trajectory of your life and business.